They might have seen the connection, but they would NOT have known what she was up to, and I think it would have been much harder to fire her in Canada, becuase they did not have the actual content of what she was viewing, since it was all encrypted. Ontario is Canada's big enclave of skating, and most of Canada's top skaters were either born there, or they trained there. I know what when my station broadcasts skating events any time during the workday in Ontario, I do see a lot of connections from various office networks in all over the province of Ontario.
Under this situation, being she was really worried about her friend, I felt, and STILL feel, that giving her temporary access to my proxy was NOT unethical. I felt it was the human thing to do under this situation. I really felt sorry for her, and what happened to her friend, being a skating fan myself, and felt that giving her temporary access to my network was the COMPASSSIONATE thing to do. You might call it unethical, but I felt that under this situation, giving her access to my network, so she could keep up on what had happened to her friend was the HUMAN thing to do. In this situation, I felt that it was the compassionate thing to do in giving her temporary access to my network. What I did in this situation was NOT unethical.