I finally went out a bought a new router. Yet this is the 6th new router in less then 2 years now! I'm a router expert now after configuring more than a dozen over these in the last few years now. I did a firmware update on my last Netgear router, and I suspect that it screwed my remote access up. Hence no one could connect to my FTP, HTTP, or SSH servers.
I've tried various models of LinkSys, Netgear, D-link, and Belkin. By far the Belkin was the biggest piece of s*it I've even seen, followed very closely by a LinkSys router. Firmware upgrades have a 0-10 history of completely ether leaving the router worse then when I started, or turning it into a doorstop!
It's not too much that these routers are not good for consumer use, it's more that I'm using it as a muti-port forwarding for running servers in my personal arsenal. The average person just using it as a secure multi-net device, wouldn't even know that there is a problem, because they aren't using the advanced features that they claim they have on the box. God help the guy who actually holds these companies responsible for what is says it "does" on the package. I questioned the tech on the phone about why these advanced features don't work as advertised, they don't give me answers, only.. "please return the product to the store".
I figured out that the standard method of operating for these router companies is as follows:
1) Make the new hardware as fast as possible, just to get it on the self.
2) Barely finish the firmware, that barely works on the new router.
3) Once the customers start calling in with problems, fix the remaining problems and bugs that they knew existed, but didn't make it into the finished product.
This model works because most all of the customers simply don't use all the features like port forwarding. A real shame if you ask me, something that cost near 200 dollars should be "finished" when it's put on the self at the store.
Anyway..
New router is a D-Link DI-624M with MIMO technology. The MINO is a new kind of antenna. Router is B,G,super G, and pre-N. Still doesn't seam to reach my "dead" zones in my daughters room, and the reception is still weak at best. However, it's working for now. Advanced features and all. D-Link routers have the reputation of the signal quality going down the tubes over time, and you have to unplug your router once a month to do a reset of the wireless signal. I wonder how long this one is going to last.
So, I've tested my network by going to remote sites, and coming back to see if I can get in from remote. It appears to be working. The Netgear router had apparently screwed up the network routing so much that it even reached out to a sbcglobal routers and screwed them too. Once the new router was put in, it seams to be slowly fixing itself, and I'll be testing tonight for more info.
"The router blues"..
Take Care everyone, and thanks all of you for your help on this.
-Richard