There are a couple of things that were designed for exactly this purpose. i.e. disconnect a network conenction when required (usually when a device was not working).
- This one, fortunately (or fortunately - I don't know), is for Fiber Optic networking.
It is called an Optical Bypass Relay. (Optical Bypass Switch too apparently)
The intention was to cut off the two fibers that connect to a port and re-connect the external pair to maintain a FDDI ring. The FO spec for GE and 100M Ethernet is I think the same as for FDDI. Maybe you can still get them.
Google for [optical bypass relay] There you go:-
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"Failsafe return to bypass mode with loss of power"
You could put more than one in series if one was not reliable enough. (in a disconnecting sense).
The consequence of looping the ethernet would have to be considered (spanning tree protocol, split IP networks, others?), however this could be avoided with two OBRs back to back.
Maybe you don't want to change to FO networking and is does sound as if using convertors would be unaceptable.
I would guess that these devices were made to be VERY reliable.
Oh, maybe they are used today by Telcos for SONET.
- Using relays (mechanical and solid state) to switch networking signals was standard practise with token ring hubs. T/R used signalling that was very similar to ethernet and Cat5 cables.
A T/R hub is formally called a MAU.
Multi-station Access Unit.
I am sure that you could probably find someone to dig out their old T/R drawings and design something for you.
You could hear the relays clicking as stations came on to and left the ring.
Maybe you could stick to lower data rates if 100M was problematic.