GE low voltage, Despard, and Watchkeeper all use low voltage switches to relays and then line voltage out to the circuits/fixtures. The GE RR-7 and RR-9 relays are almost bullet proof. And require no power except to change state. NOT CHEAP>>>>
There used to be a modular wiring system for layin lights that had the relays attached to the back of the fixtures. You would run Low voltage wire from them to the switches. Only problem was you needed to install a separate low voltage transformer for the source. I installed one of these in a strip mall and ended bastardizing it to keep it working.
Low voltage wiring has never been inexpensive. IE saving money. It is usually installed because of the ease of control.
Check out WatchKeeper panels. I have used them in several commercial jobs that control was an issue. They can come will all the computer bells and whistles/networked or just run on their own.