'I, like, so totally agree' to stop texting Parents wrestling with soaring cellphone bills put curbs on children
By Carolyn Y. Johnson, Globe Staff | April 13, 2008 The Boston Globe
It was all spelled out in the clearest terms: "I, Michela Parmeggiani, do promise to limit my cellphone use . . . NO TEXT MESSAGING IS ALLOWED ON THIS PHONE! . . . I, like, so totally agree."
Parmeggiani, 12, happily signed her name to the "Cellphone Usage Contract" drawn up by her father, earning back the phone that she lost in November when she sent her family's cellphone bill $220 higher than usual, using 1,022 extra calling minutes and more than
200 text messages."I was, like, really mad at myself for using so many minutes," said Parmeggiani of Stoughton, who went without the phone that had been her lifeline to music and friends. Life for the past few months has been "really different," she said. "I was used to having [my] cellphone in my pocket."
Cellphones are the modern-day conduit for whispering in someone's ear, passing a note, flirting, and plain old talking - especially for young people. According to the mobile measurement firm M:Metrics,
15.6 million people between 13 and 17 had cellphones as of February, up 37 percent since November 2004. Text messaging has grown with the proliferation of phones, with more than 11 million in the age group texting today.All that connectivity creates a parenting predicament: Let their children rack up hundreds of dollars in one-word text messages and quick calls or take the phones away. Often the solution may be picking a better plan after parents learn their lesson with one big bill.
Every generation finds itself facing the chasm between what an older generation deems appropriate and what the young take for granted. But cellphones add a twist for today's parents.
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My son had (past tense) a Virgin Mobile "Pay As You Go" phone that required him to add money whenever he ran out of minutes. We purchased it for him so that he could learn to budget his time and to use the technology effectively.
However, it only took him a couple of weeks to figure out that if he let it run out of minutes, his mother would add money so that she could keep in touch with him. So much for responsibility: I put my foot down, and now survives quite well without one.
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