I got the "Structured Wiring Design Manual" and it was actually pretty good. It was specific at times in terms of technology used (FutureSmart distribution panel), but you will definitely get the idea of it. Not sure there is anything that will give you an overview of everything out there as there is quite a lot and different technologies, but it does cover computer, audio, security, lighting/water/blinds/gate/etc. automation.
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