I feel sorry for the kids. I'm betting they'll revert to common usage once they get out from under parental control. Kids have a knack for figuring out and then avoiding those things that get them teased and/or beaten. Starting an interrogative with 'Whom" is definitely one of those things.
Sounds like a good way to wind up in your old age staring at the walls in a nursing home with no visitors.
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Anal? No, not at all. But you have obviously never suffered through the Revised Extended Standard Theory. :-) I tell ya, you earn those wings and by golly you're gonna spread 'em.
In my world, basic 3rd-grade grammar the first sign of intelligence & upbringing.
Just like having straight teeth, no tattoos, clean clothes, and clean fingernails, anyone can and should speak like a native 3rd grader, at the very least.
I don't have a galaxy but if it actually says "who" do you want to speak to, then it's really stupid.
All kids live on the same planet, (along with the rest of us), although sometimes their behavior makes one wonder.
...grammar IS...
I think everyone should have a basic grasp of grammar rules, but common usage trumps the rules, especially in this case. 'Whom' sounds stupid and completely wrong in this context, regardless of whether the rules say that it's right.
'Who do you want to call' sounds perfectly fine to me, while 'Whom do you want to call' sounds awful. Again, common usage versus 'the rules'.
The distinction between subjective and objective case is so obvious and so simple that people who say 'Who do you want to call?' sound just as uneducated (... ignorant ... stupid ... worthless ... ) as those who say 'Him and me went down the boozer last night'.
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