Well keeping this on the technical level, try a Google on groups for something like "home computer network"
Curiously, the firewalls newsgroup just doesn't feature until the 20th hit. There are plenty far more appropriate groups don't you think?
But yes to give you credit, you offered an alternate, not a very good one but it was an alternate.
I've also noticed that you're spelling is a bit off the mark today, something up? A little drunk perhaps or some other deficiency.
Oh and by the way, it *is* a technical debate when someone asks how to do something technically. I fail to see why you don't get that?